Life after the Ex Factor
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Life after the egg donor. A new start I thought.

I thought my life was improving, The egg donor was no longer a part of my life, I had met someone who loved me and just wanted to be with me and who didnt play any games with my mind or try and control my family.
 
I lived in this new apartemnt with my son for several months until we moved to a larger townhouse everything was going good in our lives.
The egg donor could not have this. She accused my new found love that became my wife of sexually molesting my daughter. She never reported this to the police so on a extended visit we took my daughter to a counselor who said interviewed my daughter and then reffered us to the Everett police.
 
My wife and I took my daughter to the police department were she was interviewed by a specialist who determined it was actually the egg donor's boyfriend who had been doing the molesting. My wife and I got a restraining order to keep the egg donor and her boyfriend away from the children. I was given temporary custody of my daughter for 2 weeks. During that time the egg donor filed for custody of both children.
 
I went to court about 2 weeks later and my daughter was returned to the egg donor and a Guardian ad Litem was appointed at my cost as the egg donor was on welfare yet again. The Guaridan ad Litem did an investigation and found it best for the children to live with me. The commisioner appointed custody to me and gave the egg donor visitation rights.
 
While we were leaving the courthouse the egg donors mother approached my parents and told them that we will never see the youngest child again. It was a sacrifice that the egg donor new we would have to make and it was yet another manipulative punch by the egg donors family.
 
On the day custody was assigned to me I picked up my daughter from the egg donor shortly after the hearing within 6 months the egg donor was attemping again to control and manipulate my family by taking me to court and trying to get me in contempt, She failed but still caused disturbance in my family.
 
We were summoned to court about every 6-9 months by the egg donorfor various reasons, many were her trying to get me in contempt of court and other minor changes. Within another 6 months the egg donor took us into court yet again to have the parenting plan changed so that her boyfriend that was to stay away from the children could be around them again. I fought very hard for this not to happen but the courts gave in and let her have her way.
 
I tried to get child support set at a fair amount for the egg donor and everytime I attempted to get support set she would say that she had been fired or laid off from her job, so the courts would only set support at $25 a child. this went on for over 3 years before finally getting support set at $382 a month for 2 children. anytime I asked for assistance with finacnial means of the children her reply would be "Thats what I pay child suport for"